Poem about unpicking who others made you: Hemmed In

June 18, 2026

Photo by cottonbro studio at Pexels

Diana Pricop refuses to wear the shapes others cut for her

You stitch me into shapes I never chose to wear

Then blame me when the seams split under your stare

You measure out my worth for what your narrow eyes can see

Then discard me when I am not what you want me to be

You lace me into silence, tight as a corset’s cruel embrace

Then put me back into the cupboard whenever I make a face

You hide me away until I learn how to behave

Then I become a mannequin of expectations standing like a slave.

But I am a thread unravelled now, I am every stitch you pulled loose and I am no longer silenced.

I am not the silhouette you traced in ink and expectation

I am the body learning how to breathe without hesitation

I was never yours to tailor, so watch me unpick what you made me to be

I know I will never be free, but at least I finally stopped wearing what never fit me.


Photo by Alexandr Molokov from Pexels

Diana studies English literature, history and psychology. She finds that feminism is in everything she does. Diana is interested in reading, writing, fashion, music and how politics and current affairs are present in her every day life.

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